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Supporting Members of our Community in Times of Need


May God console you among the other mourners of Zion and Jerusalem (Ha'makom yenahem etkhem betokh she'ar avelei Tziyonvi'Yerushalayim).


Funeral and Initial stages of Mourning

At Temple Isaiah we uphold the importance of belonging to the Jewish community by supporting you when you have lost a loved one. Your Rabbis, Cantor and community all wish to help you find your way back to wholeness.  

After losing a loved one it is important to call the funeral home where the burial will take place. They will help you arrange many of the details. It is also important to contact the temple so that you may consult with the clergy about setting a time for the funeral and burial.  

Once a time has been set, the Clergy officiating at the service will want to spend time with the family to know the person being remembered. At this meeting the Rabbi or Cantor will help you go through the service and the various stages of mourning. Any questions you have may be answered at this time.

It is customary to observe the period of shiva. This is the first seven days following the loss of a loved one. The family may request to hold a minyan (prayer service) at their home during this time. The officiating rabbi or cantor will help make these arrangements with you. The Shiva minyan serves as a way to help the mourner gradually find wholeness. The prayers said during this service and the opportunity to share memories with visitors from the community all help to bring comfort to the bereaved.


Unveiling

An unveiling is the placement of a marker or gravestone at the place of burial. This takes place close to eleven months after burial, however, arrangements can be made to observe this occasion at other times. If you wish, the clergy may be present with you at this ceremony. Some members choose to have an intimate gathering and lead this service themselves. Your clergy are happy to assist you and guide you in this process.


Yizkor – We Remember

The yizkor service is observed four times during the year, during Yom Kippur, at the conclusion of Sukkot, at the conclusion of Passover and on Shavuot. During this service, those who have lost a loved one at any point in their lives may come to recite the yizkor prayer.

For more information about mourning please click here.


Temple Isaiah has wonderful grief support group

We invite everyone who has lost a loved one to contact Rabbi Ed at Edwinsharris@gmail.com and to consider joining our grief support group.

Suggested Resources:

The Jewish Way in Death and Mourning by Maurice Lamm
Mourning and Mitzvah by Anne Brenner